The manners of society indicate every hour the consciousness of one Soul
The manners of society indicate every hour the consciousness of one Soul. Put three or four educated people together who have not seen each other for years, & perhaps they shall be unable to converse aloud without force. Each predicts the opinion of the other, so that talking becomes tedious. All know what each would say. Why should I officiously & emphatically offer a pail of water to my neighbor Minot? He has a well of his own that sucks the same springs at the same level that mine does. Why should I drum on his tympanum with my words to convey thoughts to which he has access equally with me?
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Journals and Miscellaneous Notebooks 7:55